Accept the fact that we have to grow out of day dreaming

When we reach our 21st birthday,we were given a key of freedom.A step into adulthood.Say bye bye to fairy tales and give up the habit of day dreaming.
Every minute is precious.Wake up!!! Don't be a successful dreamer.Be a successful contributor to ourselves,our family,our society!!! Instead of sitting down to day dream use the time to do a bit of social service.Tolerance,patience,hardworking is good but not enough to remain competitive.
Life is TVB series and we need a lot of other efforts to succeed. Knowing our faults and short comings but not putting effort to change is useless.Put away the BIG EGO and ask for advice from those who knows.

Valentine day

Rely on fate alone will not give the desire results
Fate, when couple with effort will give rise to a successful relationship
If rely on fate alone is like a brand new car but without a driver (the car cannot move)
If rely on effort alone, is like a driver who has no car (he cannot use his skills)
The most important effort in a relationship is to share and stand by each other through good and bad times; sickness and in health etc. etc.
Of course, do not expect a SUPERHERO! who is available 24 hours and wave the magic wand to solve all the problems.

Just, lend a ear, a shoulder to cry and lean on at times, a companion to share and talk when happy, sad and lonely. Try to offer help whenever possible.
If cannot offer the help needed, replace with a comforting smile, a word of encouragement or just to show that you know and care. In this era of SMS. MSN, FB, it is so simple and cheap. HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY

Disaster in the world

The conditions of the world is full of changes/happenings, some due to man-made(too much greed/selfish gains) and some might not be man-made (due to natural phenomena).Disaster is very where thou feel pitiful but it is beyond one control. But, one thing is for sure. We can control our every speech/action/thoughts. If we live our lives within "Di Zi Gui"education and spread this to our family, then peace, harmony, happiness can be felt within our close ones. Co-operation in a family can do wonders. It's no use if the whole world is peaceful but our family is not.

Goodbye 2009, Hello 2010

It's time to reminisce the past year and make new resolutions for 2010.Well, there's ups and downs, sadness and happiness and also must admit,I made a few mistakes along the way.But, it is part of growing up.Hopefully,mistakes made will make me wiser to the "Game of this world".
I can foresee the coming months will be very busy and stressful.Just cross my fingers and hope to sail through my thesis without much hiccups.Have to tell myself,thesis won't be my last stress coz the future is full of stress.But,in between sure will have sugars,hopefully plenty!!! I must thank my friends for the support and sweet memories for the past year.Also thank those who make me sad and cry because of you I am much stronger and clearer in mind.
Last but not least,if I were to fall for a guy in 2010,then pray, let him be a Winner(not one with a string of As but one who cares,supports,motivates.sincere and decent) and not a Loser(one who lies and makes me cry and break my poor tender heart)

冬至快乐--happy mid autumn

While i'm helping my mum to roll the rice ball,out of boredom,i decided to use the rice ball to design shape of love.
Although,the love shape is not really in shape,but it represent the love and care to all the one's I care about.


my homemade rice ball
sending all my love and care to all the one i know!!!
Love u all!!!

Medicine from Mum

A unit of time is as precious as a unit of gold but cannot buy back one unit of time with one unit of gold.
Time is really very precious as no amount of money can buy time.
Time is passing by and cannot be turned back and keep on getting older year by year.
Treasure every moment and second . Avoid laziness and postponement.
Most important, be very careful with every word and action.
One mistake can wipe out the goodness accumulated through years of hard work.
This is the basic lesson to a long life journey that leads to the path of no ego, personality, being and life.
Reflect and reminiscence.

Pitiful CICAK

The poor pitiful cicak. Locked up for so long. Must at once remove the nail and set it free. Wash, clean and wrap up the wound. Feed it properly and with tender, loving care, nuture it back to health. But after such a long time alone, must also try to talk to the cicak to help release the bottled up feelings and emotions. A healthy body must also have a healthy and happy mind.Hopefully, the cicak will realize that even though locked up,it is not the end. With perseverance, it can somehow survive and be saved. But hopefully, it will end up being a grateful and caring cicak and not back-stab the person who takes such good care of it. HA! HA!