Born with IQ and EQ, use them fully

We are born with eyes – to see and learn
ears – to hear and improve ourselves
nose – to smell when something is not right
mouth- to make friends and practice harmony
brains- store IQ and EQ to judge, reason and guide us in life


If we only use our ears to hear and don’t use the rest, then they will all go to sleep
and we will have no IQ and EQ to tell what is right and what is wrong.
A lot of people have become victims to all kinds of circumstances as seen in the newspapers everyday. WHY?. They only hear what people what them to hear .Where are their IQs and EQs?
Don’t be a part to hurt others’ feelings. Who knows? The world is very small. Those hurt might be the ones to pull you out from the drowning sea someday.

HAPPY MOTHERS’ DAY

M ay all of us
O ffer our deepest
T hanks and
H eart-felt love and gratitude to the one whose
E ternal care and guidance to try to make us a better person and who also
R espect our individual opinions and ideas.

Just Like A Child

When the world recognise a thing as beautiful, it would have also reveal ugliness
When the world regards something as good, there would also appear evil
Our opinions/ideas/thoughts all considered OK might not be so OK to others
Open up our feelings to trusted friends and don’t bottled up like a tinned 7-up
Work/fight towards goals but don’t dispair at others insults/setbacks,that’s life
Don’t’ be proud like a peacock at small success, life is a yo-yo
What’s so shy that cannot say thanks/sorry or just HI! when miss someone.
HA! HA!

Accept the fact that we have to grow out of day dreaming

When we reach our 21st birthday,we were given a key of freedom.A step into adulthood.Say bye bye to fairy tales and give up the habit of day dreaming.
Every minute is precious.Wake up!!! Don't be a successful dreamer.Be a successful contributor to ourselves,our family,our society!!! Instead of sitting down to day dream use the time to do a bit of social service.Tolerance,patience,hardworking is good but not enough to remain competitive.
Life is TVB series and we need a lot of other efforts to succeed. Knowing our faults and short comings but not putting effort to change is useless.Put away the BIG EGO and ask for advice from those who knows.

Valentine day

Rely on fate alone will not give the desire results
Fate, when couple with effort will give rise to a successful relationship
If rely on fate alone is like a brand new car but without a driver (the car cannot move)
If rely on effort alone, is like a driver who has no car (he cannot use his skills)
The most important effort in a relationship is to share and stand by each other through good and bad times; sickness and in health etc. etc.
Of course, do not expect a SUPERHERO! who is available 24 hours and wave the magic wand to solve all the problems.

Just, lend a ear, a shoulder to cry and lean on at times, a companion to share and talk when happy, sad and lonely. Try to offer help whenever possible.
If cannot offer the help needed, replace with a comforting smile, a word of encouragement or just to show that you know and care. In this era of SMS. MSN, FB, it is so simple and cheap. HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY

Disaster in the world

The conditions of the world is full of changes/happenings, some due to man-made(too much greed/selfish gains) and some might not be man-made (due to natural phenomena).Disaster is very where thou feel pitiful but it is beyond one control. But, one thing is for sure. We can control our every speech/action/thoughts. If we live our lives within "Di Zi Gui"education and spread this to our family, then peace, harmony, happiness can be felt within our close ones. Co-operation in a family can do wonders. It's no use if the whole world is peaceful but our family is not.

Goodbye 2009, Hello 2010

It's time to reminisce the past year and make new resolutions for 2010.Well, there's ups and downs, sadness and happiness and also must admit,I made a few mistakes along the way.But, it is part of growing up.Hopefully,mistakes made will make me wiser to the "Game of this world".
I can foresee the coming months will be very busy and stressful.Just cross my fingers and hope to sail through my thesis without much hiccups.Have to tell myself,thesis won't be my last stress coz the future is full of stress.But,in between sure will have sugars,hopefully plenty!!! I must thank my friends for the support and sweet memories for the past year.Also thank those who make me sad and cry because of you I am much stronger and clearer in mind.
Last but not least,if I were to fall for a guy in 2010,then pray, let him be a Winner(not one with a string of As but one who cares,supports,motivates.sincere and decent) and not a Loser(one who lies and makes me cry and break my poor tender heart)