Born with IQ and EQ, use them fully

We are born with eyes – to see and learn
ears – to hear and improve ourselves
nose – to smell when something is not right
mouth- to make friends and practice harmony
brains- store IQ and EQ to judge, reason and guide us in life


If we only use our ears to hear and don’t use the rest, then they will all go to sleep
and we will have no IQ and EQ to tell what is right and what is wrong.
A lot of people have become victims to all kinds of circumstances as seen in the newspapers everyday. WHY?. They only hear what people what them to hear .Where are their IQs and EQs?
Don’t be a part to hurt others’ feelings. Who knows? The world is very small. Those hurt might be the ones to pull you out from the drowning sea someday.

HAPPY MOTHERS’ DAY

M ay all of us
O ffer our deepest
T hanks and
H eart-felt love and gratitude to the one whose
E ternal care and guidance to try to make us a better person and who also
R espect our individual opinions and ideas.

Just Like A Child

When the world recognise a thing as beautiful, it would have also reveal ugliness
When the world regards something as good, there would also appear evil
Our opinions/ideas/thoughts all considered OK might not be so OK to others
Open up our feelings to trusted friends and don’t bottled up like a tinned 7-up
Work/fight towards goals but don’t dispair at others insults/setbacks,that’s life
Don’t’ be proud like a peacock at small success, life is a yo-yo
What’s so shy that cannot say thanks/sorry or just HI! when miss someone.
HA! HA!

Accept the fact that we have to grow out of day dreaming

When we reach our 21st birthday,we were given a key of freedom.A step into adulthood.Say bye bye to fairy tales and give up the habit of day dreaming.
Every minute is precious.Wake up!!! Don't be a successful dreamer.Be a successful contributor to ourselves,our family,our society!!! Instead of sitting down to day dream use the time to do a bit of social service.Tolerance,patience,hardworking is good but not enough to remain competitive.
Life is TVB series and we need a lot of other efforts to succeed. Knowing our faults and short comings but not putting effort to change is useless.Put away the BIG EGO and ask for advice from those who knows.

Valentine day

Rely on fate alone will not give the desire results
Fate, when couple with effort will give rise to a successful relationship
If rely on fate alone is like a brand new car but without a driver (the car cannot move)
If rely on effort alone, is like a driver who has no car (he cannot use his skills)
The most important effort in a relationship is to share and stand by each other through good and bad times; sickness and in health etc. etc.
Of course, do not expect a SUPERHERO! who is available 24 hours and wave the magic wand to solve all the problems.

Just, lend a ear, a shoulder to cry and lean on at times, a companion to share and talk when happy, sad and lonely. Try to offer help whenever possible.
If cannot offer the help needed, replace with a comforting smile, a word of encouragement or just to show that you know and care. In this era of SMS. MSN, FB, it is so simple and cheap. HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY

Disaster in the world

The conditions of the world is full of changes/happenings, some due to man-made(too much greed/selfish gains) and some might not be man-made (due to natural phenomena).Disaster is very where thou feel pitiful but it is beyond one control. But, one thing is for sure. We can control our every speech/action/thoughts. If we live our lives within "Di Zi Gui"education and spread this to our family, then peace, harmony, happiness can be felt within our close ones. Co-operation in a family can do wonders. It's no use if the whole world is peaceful but our family is not.

Goodbye 2009, Hello 2010

It's time to reminisce the past year and make new resolutions for 2010.Well, there's ups and downs, sadness and happiness and also must admit,I made a few mistakes along the way.But, it is part of growing up.Hopefully,mistakes made will make me wiser to the "Game of this world".
I can foresee the coming months will be very busy and stressful.Just cross my fingers and hope to sail through my thesis without much hiccups.Have to tell myself,thesis won't be my last stress coz the future is full of stress.But,in between sure will have sugars,hopefully plenty!!! I must thank my friends for the support and sweet memories for the past year.Also thank those who make me sad and cry because of you I am much stronger and clearer in mind.
Last but not least,if I were to fall for a guy in 2010,then pray, let him be a Winner(not one with a string of As but one who cares,supports,motivates.sincere and decent) and not a Loser(one who lies and makes me cry and break my poor tender heart)

冬至快乐--happy mid autumn

While i'm helping my mum to roll the rice ball,out of boredom,i decided to use the rice ball to design shape of love.
Although,the love shape is not really in shape,but it represent the love and care to all the one's I care about.


my homemade rice ball
sending all my love and care to all the one i know!!!
Love u all!!!

Medicine from Mum

A unit of time is as precious as a unit of gold but cannot buy back one unit of time with one unit of gold.
Time is really very precious as no amount of money can buy time.
Time is passing by and cannot be turned back and keep on getting older year by year.
Treasure every moment and second . Avoid laziness and postponement.
Most important, be very careful with every word and action.
One mistake can wipe out the goodness accumulated through years of hard work.
This is the basic lesson to a long life journey that leads to the path of no ego, personality, being and life.
Reflect and reminiscence.

Pitiful CICAK

The poor pitiful cicak. Locked up for so long. Must at once remove the nail and set it free. Wash, clean and wrap up the wound. Feed it properly and with tender, loving care, nuture it back to health. But after such a long time alone, must also try to talk to the cicak to help release the bottled up feelings and emotions. A healthy body must also have a healthy and happy mind.Hopefully, the cicak will realize that even though locked up,it is not the end. With perseverance, it can somehow survive and be saved. But hopefully, it will end up being a grateful and caring cicak and not back-stab the person who takes such good care of it. HA! HA!

just a random post

When u guys are reading my blog,i have to say " sorry" coz i'm grumbling again....

Nowadays,don't what the reason that i'm having such bad mood
Bad mood in the sense of not in the mood to do everything......

I feel very bad of myself...
my mid term is around the corner,i nid to be hardworking!!!
I nid to move back to my books ,instead of blogging,facebooking,gaming and msning n watching tv.....

So, gamateh to myself
God bless me ...........

Final exam is around the corner ....

My final exam will be on 20/10,10am (food engineering)...

This time only one subject for short sem final...

But,
Hopefully, i can finish the syllabus in time.
Hopefully,the exam will not be that tough.
Hopefully,i can remember the notes well....

Not to forget,
Hopefully,God can bless me through out the exam period.

Something to Ponder‏

The world has changed rapidly and advance in every sectors since the days where stones were rub against each other to start a fire. But on the other hand, morals and family values have deteriorated just as fast. Gone were the days when children kneeled and offered tea to their parents but nowadays, parents get beaten by their children and even have to repay their debts. Parents in olden days, provide and educate their children but now we hear of child abuse. How about the special place at home where the whole family gathered and paid respects to the ancestors. The annual thanksgiving and all souls day offering attended by the whole family. Have we ever ponder why we must respect and offer thanks to the souls. Well, did we ever realize that the present luxuries, advancement, inventions etc. were also partly contributed by them when they were alive!!!.

Harbour‏

A Majestic ship loaded with a wide variety of goods sailing in the ocean. Having accumulated a substantial amount of cargo over a period of time, it is now ready to dock and look for a suitable partner to form a trading partnership. Sighted at a near distance is an enterprising, gigantic-looking harbour. It looks busy and very promising. Considering to dock at the harbour to access its compatibility as a possible partner.

The Unseen‏

Why the creation of ?

Heaven and Hell

God and Satan

‘Yin’ and ‘Yang’

Black and White

Good and Bad

Male and Female

Because this is the Nature’s Law of Duality, opposites co-exist side by side

Likewise when we pray to the’ Gods’ above, did we ever ponder about praying to the ancestors and the departed souls that did not make it to Heaven.

Follow Nature’s Way and pay due respect to the ‘unseen’. Being unseen does not mean non-existence. Air has no shape and form but it is everywhere Even Buddha instructed his disciples to pay respect to the ‘departed souls’.

A lesson from the tree‏

A tree welcomes all seasons, rain or shine
Never complains but accept all conditions
In harsh conditions, it sheds its leaves
In rainy seasons, it buds and flowers
Therefore, the tree teaches mankind to accept the sufferings and happiness
with a calm and detached mind BUT being fully aware of all conditions and
to confront, manage, solve them diligently for the good of both
oneself and others.

the tomatoes story‏

2 teams took part in a competition. Each team had 10 members. Team A & B were put in different rooms.The members in each team were asked to sit facing each other with 2 baskets of tomatoes between them.Each member had an empty basket beside him and is supposed to fill it up with tomatoes using a pair of 1 foot long chopsticks from the basket not in front of him but from the one in front of his opposite team-mate.

One prize is given to the team that could collect the most tomatoes and 3 prizes to individuals that collected the most.

At the ring of the bell, sound of chopsticks fighting were heared from team A but there was silence from team B except sound of dropping of tomatoes in baskets.Guess, who won? Of course team B. Why?

Members in team A were fighting to fill up their own baskets whereas members in team B practise humanity and fill up the opposite team-mate basket and let the opposite team-mate fill up his own therefore their chopsticks did not cross each other and could win all the prizes among themselves.

What do we learn from this? In life’s journey to reach our goals and objectives, do not step down others. Sometimes helping and encouraging each other(with wisdom, of course) can bring wonders. A true winner is one who can win others gently and not by strength and authority.

The gentle water can even bring down mountains!

REASON NOT

If judge by humanity
then agreement will be reached by all in one voice
If judge by reason
then there will surely be chaos
for white to one maybe black to another
Dont always act on 'I first' attitude and focus to
'you also first'
then harmony and peace will surely be seen

Nature Law of Marriage

Why was man and woman created together and by nature to interact with one another? Why not create one sex alone, when the interaction in turn give happiness, sadness , laughter , tears etc. etc. WHY! WHY! WHY!

Well, I suppose we cannot run away from nature’s law and as proven in Einstein law of relativity. Also known as the law of duality, things always appear in pairs. So, if we cannot change nature, then we must adapt ourselves to nature and make nature work and not fail.

As in the Noble Eightfold Path, we must practise right view, right resolve, right speech, right conduct, right livelihood, right effort, right mindfulness, right concentration. The right is

(a)do not hurt another (speech/action) and show care and loving kindness.Don’t be stingy with feelings to your partner and do away with egoism.

(b)understand law of cause and effect/karma/Newton Law of action and reaction and observe it carefully. What we do to others will come back sooner or later, good or bad, partnership should always be a win-win situation.

(c) love your body and take care of it.Don't torture it with AIDs and destroy the whole family in a moment of temptation

If couples adopt the above, A true blessing to nature and parents that bring us to this world.

Another final exam blog

No time to update my blog....due to reali reali very busy this semester....
But due to my final exam is around the corner...
As usual,i will update my final exam time table here....

6/8- 10am- human nutrition
11/8-2.30pm- information tech
17/8-2.30pm- physio science
19/8-10am- food tech

Again,the exam is full of calculation,memorizing,which i dislike the most.
Not forgetting ,the questions with lots of application....
Without the tips,as usual......

Hopefully,i can finish the syllabus in time before exam
Hopefully,the exam will not be tough
Last but not least,hopefully,god bless me throughout this final exam.